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Drawn from modern research and their pioneering work at The Allender Center, they will help you identify your core trauma in one of the three outcast archetypes--the widow, orphan, or stranger--and chart your path of growth into the God-given roles of priest, prophet, or leader. This book will help you learn:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat to do about feeling out-of-place and directionless\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow your coping mechanisms create a false sense of health\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow to embrace your divine calling and find lasting reconciliation\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow your heart wounds are your unique invitation to true strength and purpose.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eYour past pain does not dictate your life. 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